This was a movie I watched last night on Netflix - it has Hilary Swank, Josh Duhamel, and Emmy Rossum. It came out in 2014 and I don't recall it, but oh was I snotting all over the place!
Swank plays a woman in her late 30s who develops ALS and her husband played by Duhamel dresses, bathes, puts on her make up, etc. Swank finds out he cheats on her, feels guilty as she can't give him the life he deserves or the life they thought they would have when they first married.
ALS eventually takes away your breathing ability and you end up on a ventilator. Swanks character did not want to end up on a ventilator, she wanted to die on her terms at home even though her family wanted different. Her friends also distanced themselves as they didn't know how to deal with Swanks condition.
I related to this movie on so many levels. When you first marry your beloved you dream and discuss all the great things you are going to accomplish together. The places to go, the children to raise, the world to conquer. Then BAM you develop a life altering condition that slowly takes away things you love to do. I have the greatest husband who has stood by me through it all, yes he gets tired, yes he gets cranky, but I know he's there. I've said to him he got the raw end of this deal, and his response is that he definitely didn't -God put us together for a reason. I've helped him through things and made him who he is today and he's here to help me and loves me very much. How did I get so lucky?
Gratefully I do not have a progressive neurological condition, and I can walk. But while I was in the hospital Greg never complained about adjusting my pillows with all my chest tubes or cleaning my butt because I couldn't reach back there. (Wiping a spouse butt is on a whole other level for both parties involved). But I do feel bad I can't give Greg everything he needs right now.
We have a whole new lifestyle to adjust to with meds, side effects, routines.
We have seen people distance themselves and that hurts but they must have their reasons.
The ventilator issue is a hard one for me- I was intubated twice (2surgeries) and was awake and that was horrible! I don't ever want a ventilator again! I'm also a difficult intubation. I truly believe I have some post traumatic stress from the complications that occurred post-op. I have a constant fear of getting sick and ending up back in the hospital and away from home. I was away for so long and it was so incredibly difficult. I cry thinking about it now. But I have amazing supportive family, friends, co- workers and that makes life easier.
Be thankful for your body and what it can do and treat it well - it can do amazing things.
Watch the movie , it's worth it.
Sunday, March 29, 2015
Saturday, February 14, 2015
National Donor Day/Happy Valentines Day
Today is a day to represent love and one of the most loving selfless acts you can do is give life to another human being.
Stop and think what the medical community can do: so much of our body can be paid forward when God sees fit to call us home. It's a crazy thought that I have someone else's lungs inside of me. They are helping me breathe better and have given me color back.
So take time on this national day of love and tell each other how you feel. Spread some love and consider spreading that love after you are gone as an organ donor.
Stop and think what the medical community can do: so much of our body can be paid forward when God sees fit to call us home. It's a crazy thought that I have someone else's lungs inside of me. They are helping me breathe better and have given me color back.
So take time on this national day of love and tell each other how you feel. Spread some love and consider spreading that love after you are gone as an organ donor.
Friday, January 2, 2015
2015!! Here we come
A new post has been long overdue but the end of 2014 was rough.
I received my double lung transplant 10-10-14, was in the hospital roughly 2 wks and discharged home with 2 chest tubes on each side. We stayed in Madison as they didn't want me too far away so they could keep a close eye on me.
The right lower lung was always imperfect and it continued to worsen. Just when we thought we were going to be able to go home, I had to get a chest CT which showed a bad infection and dying tissue in the right lower lobe and I had to be scheduled to have it removed. Thus I was readmitted to the hospital November 11, received a PICC line for IV antibiotics and had to have my chest reopened on 11-17--they also took muscle from right upper chest to place where the lung use to be so there wasn't empty space for bacteria to breed. To do this muscle flap procedure they also removed part of my upper ribs so I have an indentation there. They kept me on the ventilator overnight and being aware of intubation is extremely difficult. They couldn't sedate me as much as my blood pressure was already on the low side.
Man -this was a big bummer and I was feeling a bit defeated. I wanted to go home, I needed to go home--I hadn't seen my son in wks and facetime just isn't the same. I was determined to get better.
I was able to go home on 11-25, right before Thanksgiving and that was so awesome. It was so good to be home and be in my own bed even if I still had chest tubes.
I was cooking some dinner on 12-1 and one of my chest tubes fell out!!!! Yes -it fell out! How does this happen?!!?!? I ended up in Butterworth ER and was admitted there to have chest tube replaced. I was discharged on 12-3.
I had follow up in Wisconsin on 12-10 and they found my white blood cells to be elevated and needed to admit for work up as elevated WBC can be a sign of infection. I had another chest CT which showed 2 small pockets of fluid/infection in that right lower lung area. They decided to put 2 chest tubes in those areas to drain the fluid and the IV antibiotics continue. I was able to leave 12-15 and continue with IV antibiotics at home which I'm still doing.
I went to Wisc 12-28 and the CT was improved and I was able to have one of the chest tubes removed!!! Yeah!!! I go back to Wisc on 1-7 and hope to have the last tube pulled. I've had tubes somewhere in my chest since October!!!!!
My labs from today are all normal--yea!!!!!!!!!
So Oct-Dec were very rough, and I pray 2015 is much smoother. I take a lot of meds which have all kinds of side effects---hot flashes, tingling/numbness in fingers and toes, headaches, memory issues, tremors, etc. But I have new lungs and its starting to feel good to take a breath! My chest has many scars and am starting to get some feeling back where the incisions are (nerves damaged when cuts are made). The initial incision that was made for transplant goes from armpit to armpit and I was told it is the worse incision to have (as it is so long and they cut through sternum).
I so appreciate the support, you do find out who your true friends are when you are traveling through the valley. Be kind and please take care of yourself and those you love around you. We are not guaranteed another day.
Breathe and be thankful for that breath.
I received my double lung transplant 10-10-14, was in the hospital roughly 2 wks and discharged home with 2 chest tubes on each side. We stayed in Madison as they didn't want me too far away so they could keep a close eye on me.
The right lower lung was always imperfect and it continued to worsen. Just when we thought we were going to be able to go home, I had to get a chest CT which showed a bad infection and dying tissue in the right lower lobe and I had to be scheduled to have it removed. Thus I was readmitted to the hospital November 11, received a PICC line for IV antibiotics and had to have my chest reopened on 11-17--they also took muscle from right upper chest to place where the lung use to be so there wasn't empty space for bacteria to breed. To do this muscle flap procedure they also removed part of my upper ribs so I have an indentation there. They kept me on the ventilator overnight and being aware of intubation is extremely difficult. They couldn't sedate me as much as my blood pressure was already on the low side.
Man -this was a big bummer and I was feeling a bit defeated. I wanted to go home, I needed to go home--I hadn't seen my son in wks and facetime just isn't the same. I was determined to get better.
I was able to go home on 11-25, right before Thanksgiving and that was so awesome. It was so good to be home and be in my own bed even if I still had chest tubes.
I was cooking some dinner on 12-1 and one of my chest tubes fell out!!!! Yes -it fell out! How does this happen?!!?!? I ended up in Butterworth ER and was admitted there to have chest tube replaced. I was discharged on 12-3.
I had follow up in Wisconsin on 12-10 and they found my white blood cells to be elevated and needed to admit for work up as elevated WBC can be a sign of infection. I had another chest CT which showed 2 small pockets of fluid/infection in that right lower lung area. They decided to put 2 chest tubes in those areas to drain the fluid and the IV antibiotics continue. I was able to leave 12-15 and continue with IV antibiotics at home which I'm still doing.
I went to Wisc 12-28 and the CT was improved and I was able to have one of the chest tubes removed!!! Yeah!!! I go back to Wisc on 1-7 and hope to have the last tube pulled. I've had tubes somewhere in my chest since October!!!!!
My labs from today are all normal--yea!!!!!!!!!
So Oct-Dec were very rough, and I pray 2015 is much smoother. I take a lot of meds which have all kinds of side effects---hot flashes, tingling/numbness in fingers and toes, headaches, memory issues, tremors, etc. But I have new lungs and its starting to feel good to take a breath! My chest has many scars and am starting to get some feeling back where the incisions are (nerves damaged when cuts are made). The initial incision that was made for transplant goes from armpit to armpit and I was told it is the worse incision to have (as it is so long and they cut through sternum).
I so appreciate the support, you do find out who your true friends are when you are traveling through the valley. Be kind and please take care of yourself and those you love around you. We are not guaranteed another day.
Breathe and be thankful for that breath.
Saturday, October 18, 2014
Update : 8 days out
It was a rough start after my extended intubation, it was very difficult not to focus on being awake and trying not to pull out tube. I really had to pray like crazy. And after I had trouble swallowing and had to have a tube placed down my throat. That is highly uncomfortable and irritating and made attempting swallowing more tricky. I'm doing esophageal strengthening exercises but praise God I got the tube out a few hrs ago and boy that feels sooooooooo much better. My nurse also washed my hair today-Elise is a rockstar!
I don't have much of an appetite so just gotta force myself. The puréed eggs this AM had the consistency of frosting-- yuck! I enjoyed my peaches tho!
Keep praying for daily recovery and hopefully I can get a chest tube out within the next 24hrs!
We can't do this without you and am so grateful for each and everyone of you!
Gotta get out of here, will have a repeat bronch Mon/Tues to clear out that right lung.
Love you!
I don't have much of an appetite so just gotta force myself. The puréed eggs this AM had the consistency of frosting-- yuck! I enjoyed my peaches tho!
Keep praying for daily recovery and hopefully I can get a chest tube out within the next 24hrs!
We can't do this without you and am so grateful for each and everyone of you!
Gotta get out of here, will have a repeat bronch Mon/Tues to clear out that right lung.
Love you!
Thursday, October 16, 2014
Hows life nearly 1wk out?
Almost 1 wk out!
Crazy it has happened! I've read some FB posts asking if I can breathe differently-- I still have 3 out of 4 chest tubes in which roll over my lungs and cause discomfort and trouble breathing. My donor lungs had some 'heaviness" in right lower lobe according to my surgeon- I asked if that meant heaviness from smoking- he assured me no.
He thinks it's from the trauma they had, so they had to take me to bronchoscopy yest afternoon to suck the junk out- the pulmonologist said it was good they did it because they were to thick for me to cough up on his own.
They may return me there pending repeat CXR.
So I hope-pls pray tubes to come out esp my feeding tube as my extended intubation did a number on my throat and vocal cords. My repeat swallow study is tomorrow.
I will keep walking- I think I walked a total of 13 times and did 5 min on some bike thingy.
Pls pray healing continues and I am so thankful to each one of you who has reached out and has sent us love.
💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
Crazy it has happened! I've read some FB posts asking if I can breathe differently-- I still have 3 out of 4 chest tubes in which roll over my lungs and cause discomfort and trouble breathing. My donor lungs had some 'heaviness" in right lower lobe according to my surgeon- I asked if that meant heaviness from smoking- he assured me no.
He thinks it's from the trauma they had, so they had to take me to bronchoscopy yest afternoon to suck the junk out- the pulmonologist said it was good they did it because they were to thick for me to cough up on his own.
They may return me there pending repeat CXR.
So I hope-pls pray tubes to come out esp my feeding tube as my extended intubation did a number on my throat and vocal cords. My repeat swallow study is tomorrow.
I will keep walking- I think I walked a total of 13 times and did 5 min on some bike thingy.
Pls pray healing continues and I am so thankful to each one of you who has reached out and has sent us love.
💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
Sunday, October 12, 2014
Day full of success.....
We started the day with the removal of the chest tube! :) Then Joyce was able to sit in the chair for the 1st time, a few hours later, and she made it about 45 minutes before feeling too woozy and needed to go back to bed. A couple hours later, Joyce sat in the chair for just over an hour and then took her 1st walk!!! It was truly miraculous to see Joyce up exercising those new lungs again....and only on very little (2 liters) of oxygen....and maintained an O2 sat of 96%! Truly, truly incredible! Joyce has since sat in the chair for another long stint and gone for another walk. We are all hoping that she can get some much needed sleep tonight.
As the day progressed Joyce's blood sugars regulated more and more so they now only bug her every 2 hours for new reads rather than every hour.....have to see even the little steps as, just that, steps....in the right direction.
Thank you all again for the love, prayers, and support all around.....I'll be updating soon.....
~Mehgan~
Prayers answered......
Just another quick little note to all of you.....Joyce finally got the clearance for the Breathing Tube to be removed! So exciting.....Joyce was very irritated this morning, so this could not be better news! Thanks for all the prayers!
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